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Positive & Negative Emotions

What Are They?

Emotions are biologically encoded responses that occur before "feelings" arise in the body. They are a more general category of reactions that nearly all humans experience and were developed for our survival. Emotions and feelings are not the same. Feelings are produced by one's relationship and perception of emotions, often causing one to label emotions as "good" or "bad" or as wanted and unwanted. In actuality, there are two categories of emotions -- positive and negative -- and neither are inherently good nor bad. 


Positive emotions 

These include emotions such as joy, gratitude, interest, hope, awe, altruism, satisfaction, confidence, surprise, happiness, optimism, and love. Positive emotions are more than the quick, external pleasures we "chase" in pursuit of happiness. We must learn to internally cultivate these emotions, and consistently practice them in our lives to improve our well-being. They help set the foundations for our capacity to survive, find meaning, and connect more deeply with ourselves and others. 


Negative Emotions 

These include emotions such as anger, annoyance, jealousy, envy, fear, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, apathy, and despair. Although these emotions are labeled as "negative", they are as beneficial to our quality of life as positive emotions -- that is if we use them appropriately. Nobody wants to feel fear more than love, but fear can be a powerful teacher (like love) if we choose to see fear as an old wound in need of tending rather than an enemy to fight or run away from.


Why and How We Need to Manage Them

Three new understandings are helpful to learn to better manage our emotions. The first new understanding is to forget the old belief that positive emotions are inherently good and negative emotions are inherently bad. With this false mentality, we often fall into the "happiness trap" where we run away from or suppress our negative emotions to "chase" more positive ones in external things. Positive and negative emotions should be treated as neutral, and they are equally useful tools for our survival and well-being. The second new understanding is that we are not victims of our emotions. Most of us were erroneously taught that we cannot control our emotions, thus making our emotions begin to control us, heightening our susceptibility to high psychological and physiological stress and lowering our quality of life. When we do learn that we can, in fact, manage emotions, we must reframe our feelings (perception) towards emotions to feelings that are more accurate with reality (such as your anxiety is trying to help, not hurt you). The third new understanding is that emotions are physiological cycles that require us to take certain steps to transfer them into positive tools of growth. Emotions are felt in the body, therefore cannot be "thought" away by our minds. Steps to complete emotion cycles include being aware of, and labeling, the emotions through practicing mindfulness, talk therapy, practicing CBT or EMDR, crying, and doing physical and creative exercises you enjoy, such as yoga, running, dancing, painting, journaling, playing a musical instrument, etc.


Benefits of Positive & Negative Emotions

Positive 

  • Improves Heart and Health
  • Improves Social Relationships
  • Increases Sense of Purpose
  • Greater Well-Being
  • Increases Effective Coping
  • Heightens Resilience and Memory
  • Increases Prosocial Behavior

Negative

  • Anxiety can be a signal for unprocessed emotions and trauma
  • Sadness can increase attention to detail
  • Anger can promote practicing stress management
  • Anxiety can heighten new ways of critical thinking and problem-solving
  • Guilt can encourage helping unhealthy behavior
  • Jealousy can increase motivation
  • Pain can encourage optimism and different ways of thinking

Articles & More

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

27 Apr 2019 27 by Courtney E. Ackerman 

Article

How We Misunderstand Anxiety and Miss Out On Its Benefits

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

7 Sep 2022 by Dacher Keltner and Kira M. Newman

article

Emotions and Types of Emotional Responses

What Are Positive and Negative Emotions and Why Do We Need Both?

Emotions and Types of Emotional Responses

25 Feb 2022 by Kendra Cherry

article

Good Genes Are Nice But Joy Is Better

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

Emotions and Types of Emotional Responses

11 Apr 2017 by Liz Mineo

article

How to Become a Scientist of Your Own Emotions

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

16 Sep 2019 by Jill Suttie

article

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

Why We Should Help Boys Embrace All Their Feelings

22 Feb 2018 by June Gruber and Jessica L. Borelli

article

The Role of Positive Emotions in Psychology

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

24 Jun 2011 by Barbara L. Fredrickson

scholarly journal

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

12 Feb 2021 by Rebecca Alexander, et al.

Scholarly journal

Emotion regulation ability compensates for the depression-related negativity bias

The Neuroscience of Positive emotions and Affect: Implications for Cultivating Happiness and Wellbe

Emotion regulation ability compensates for the depression-related negativity bias

Oct 2021 by Rainer Düsing, et al.

Scholarly journal

The Body Keeps Score

Emotional Intelligence

Emotion regulation ability compensates for the depression-related negativity bias

By Bessel van der Kolk

book

The Untethered Soul

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence

By Michael A. Singer

book

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence

By Daniel Goleman

book

Videos

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

In a moving talk, journalist Johann Hari shares fresh insights on the causes of depression and anxiety from experts around the world -- as well as some exciting emerging solutions.

How to cope with anxiety | Olivia Remes

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

In her talk “How to cope with anxiety”, Olivia Remes of the University of Cambridge will share her vision on anxiety and will unravel ways to treat and manage this health disorder. 

What is depression? - Helen M. Farrell

This could be why you're depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

How to master your emotions | emotional intelligence

Depression is the leading cause of disability in the world; in the United States, close to ten percent of adults struggle with the disease. But because it’s a mental illness, it can be a lot harder to understand than, say, high cholesterol.

How to master your emotions | emotional intelligence

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

How to master your emotions | emotional intelligence

Running a holiday sale or weekly special? Definitely promote it here to get customers excited about getting a sweet deal.

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

Feelings are what we have the most of and know the least about; handle them or they will handle you

This is why emotions are important

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

Feelings: Handle them before they handle you | Mandy Saligari

Podcasts

Embracing Sadness in the Pursuit of Happiness

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

Embracing Sadness in the Pursuit of Happiness

Happiness Lab with Laurie Santos

listen

How to Identify Your Negative Emotions

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

Embracing Sadness in the Pursuit of Happiness

Happiness Lab with Laurie Santos

listen

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

listen

The Power of Negative Thinking

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness

Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

listen

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

listen

How Your Emotions Are Made

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

Dr. Marc Brackett and Brené on ‘Permission to Feel

Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

listen

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